The importance of patience should be realised by every individual. Patience in life can avoid making hasty decisions. Life is not about living in the future or in the past; life is about accepting the present moment.
Wherever you are in any sort of trouble, people often advise you to have patience. Why, instead of advising you about the solution, they tell you to stay calm and be composed, be patient.
In this modern age, most of us have forgotten to be patient and get irritated very quickly over minor things like a traffic jam, single life, joblessness, life’s ups and downs, etc. In fact, patience is a virtue that everybody must possess. Patience makes us a better person.
Here are few reasons patience is important to life
· Patience shapes a talent into Achievements
To shape your talents and inborn abilities into real achievements, you must have patience.
To master any art or to enhance your talent, you need to make continuous effort for a long time.
To achieve your dreams, you must have the zeal to overcome challenges and the power to overcome roadblocks comes only from patience.
· Patience helps acquire positive attitude
If things are not going the way you want them to, instead of getting frustrated, you must learn to be patient. You need to see things and situations in a positive light to make your life happier and to get that positivity, you need to be patient.
If you find any life situation challenging, or find it difficult to bear, try to reframe that situation and try to see its positive side.
· Patience makes you healthier
Anger and stress are two things that are enough to ruin a person’s health, and patience is the medicine to both illnesses. Being patient, you can overcome challenging situation with more flexibility and in a better way. Being stress free and happy helps you stay healthier.
You can be patient if you have clear knowledge about your goal and if you are putting the desired effort in the right direction. There are many ways to achieve anything, the trick is to stick to your own plan when others around you seem to be getting ahead much faster than you. Yes, they may be getting ahead much faster then you, but you know nothing about where they are ultimately headed.
Patience is an important tool in overcoming frustration, it allow us to suspend judgment long enough to make informed decisions thus paving the path to a happy and peaceful life.
· Patience helps you to be empathetic
Building empathy towards others is very important if you want to live a hassle free life. If you get irritated by a crying baby or a loud child playing in front of you, you must think about developing your patience, Patience helps you build empathy towards others.
Patience helps us accept other people as they are and makes us tolerant till they work and improve in their flaws. By being impatient, you suffer more than other people.
Written by Adebola C. Alatise